Damien Wilkins : Obituary

Published on the ThisIsAnnouncements.co.uk website on 5th October 2009
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27th September 2009

"Every day was precious."

Those were the moving words of mum Wendy Want, whose son Damien Wilkins died after a long battle with a rare disease.

The much-loved teenager died in Grimsby's Diana, Princess of Wales Hospital on Sunday September 27, 2009.

Damien had celebrated his 16th birthday with his mum and two of his mates, Robert Westerman and Bruce Thomas, just two weeks before his death.

At the age of 10, Damien had been diagnosed with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome.

The condition creates highly fragile blood vessels, weak cushioning around vital organs, brittle skin and means that any wounds take a long time to heal.

Wendy said: "That did not stop him living life to the full. He knew his life span was about 28 years, but it did not stop him.

"I let him do whatever any other lad does. He loved Manchester United and his bikes and pool.

"He had a huge gang of friends and our home was more like a community centre.

"He was great at wheeling and dealing over the bikes he mended for people. He did up mopeds and pushbikes."

Damien was a regular visitor to CueWorld on Victoria Street, Grimsby to play pool.

His mother praised the support Damien and her family had from doctors and nurses at Diana, Princess of Wales Hospital.

Damien’s father, Gary said: "He really enjoyed the Motor Project in Grimsby where he repaired motorcycles.

"It was great to see him get so much out of it.

"I came back from Manchester four years ago where I was living and working, so I could see him through his youth. I am glad I did."

He recalled taking his son to Old Trafford to watch his favourite team.

Brother Gary, 23 said: "He was everyone’s little brother. He always kept all his girlfriends entertained and he loved his motorbikes."

Sister Sophie, 14, said: "I will always treasure his cheeky smile and his Beanie hat which he always wore.

His friends, classmates and teachers from Hereford School gathered for a memorial football match in his honour.

Amanda Regan, Damien's head of year at Hereford School, said: "Damien was a very popular member of his age group, and it is absolutely brilliant that his friends have organised all of this for him. They also want to do some fundraising in school in his memory."

Damien's friends released balloons bearing heartfelt messages into the air, and read out tributes to the boy who "was loved by everyone".

Jennifer Watson, 14, said: "Texts started going round school saying there was a tribute to Damo. It's good because we can all share our memories of him, and this is where he used to play football all the time.

"Damo was amazing. He was like a little brother to everyone, and always made everyone laugh."

Catherine Milligan, 14, said: "Every time you saw him he always had a smile on his face. He made the Grange what it is. It's not going to be the same without him."

Becky Mair, 14, wrote a poem in tribute to Damien, which described him as "one in a trillion".

She said: "He was one of my brother's best friends and was like a brother to me. I will miss his cheeky smile."

Alice Clark, 14, said: "He was the lad that lit up the Grange. You could go round the world and not meet anyone like Damo."

Joshua Denford, 13, said: "There was not one person who he didn't get along with. It's not going to be the same without him."

James Ballard, 13, said: "He was funny, he was kind, he was like my brother. He was everything to me."

Damien's girlfriend Danielle Finn, 14, said: "I fell in love with Damo as soon as I met him. He was funny, kind-hearted and always made me smile."

http://www.thisisgrimsby.co. uk/news/Poignant-farewell- popular-Damien/article- 1390651-detail/article.html [This Is Grimsby]

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    • lucy webster
      4th Mar 2011
  • damien i love you !!

    its been over a year now, :-(
    no matter how long your not here, me and everyone else are going to be thinking of you ALWAYS.

    we have been from the start to us your never gone !! <3


    love you always <3
    always in my thoughts & heart
    love naomi xxxxxxx

    Report this message By naomi on 16th Nov 2010
  • damien wilkins

    Everyday wish that I could wake up and all thi could be a dream but all I can do is scream. My heart is in pain and I’m going insane this feeling is hard to contain. I miss you and I know you have gone out of my life. All I can do is cry, so I'm sitting here asking god why why did he take the perfect angel out my life. I just sitting by my phone wishing you would call me soon but I know it won’t come true. I still love you.... Day in and Day out I can not shout. Their love everything about you, I wish you was here with me. My heart is not on beat. Can’t you see what your love did to me? My heart is in the dark. I can hardly talk. I can not even walk standing over your ashes I can not say I love you because I will never here your voice again. Sense you past I'm not the same person you use to know now. My life will never feel the same I just wish death had came for me instead of you because I would risk my life for you because u was my hero.

    Report this message By Jemma Barley on 5th Oct 2010
  • Damien where do i...

    Damien where do i start never got up in the morning unless it was to go on his motor bike and when ya used to ride it down the street your mum used to come out and tell u to get in with it. The time u, soph ur mum, james and mum went to butlins and ur mum gave the man behanf the bar ur flashing glasses and she sent u up to get u soph james and me a bottle of j2o and u went up and u was like where is he and he popped up and u looked at ur mum and said his got my glasses on and he gave u the drinks and u gave him the money then when he gave u the change he gave ur glasses back i'll always remember that. Sophie birthday the time soph lizzie and me slept out in the backyard and u and little james where gunna jump out the window then ur mum went in ur room i have soo many good memorys with u and am never guna forget them or u r.i.p damo love u x biggest brightest star in the sky (*) x

    Report this message By Alice Clark on 18th Dec 2009
  • R.I.P Damien Adam Wilkins...

    R.I.P Damien Adam Wilkins xxx
    I miss youu likeee maddd :(
    i can only remember them good times we had like when we was watchin that film and you,soph,rob and buster walked me home and yhoo said "if enyone comes i will set bust on to them" lmao
    i miss your girly laugh and your little benny hat that you never took off even in the summer :) xxxx
    sleep tightt now darling always on my heart forever :) x
    loveee you sooo muchh damoo i just wish you was still here with use today xxxxxxx :'( x

    Report this message By jennifer watson on 21st Nov 2009
  • Damo life will never...

    Damo life will never be the same without you (L)
    when i was in year7 and 8 adn even nine you and bruce was always there for me now i am lost as anything i will keep a eye out for your little sister sophie and your mum wendy

    BORN A SOILDER DIED A HERO :(

    HERES A POEM THAT ME AND MATES MADE FOR U
    Damo was there when we needed and ally
    If we wanted to tallk or felt like a cry
    When no one else seemed to understand
    He was there with a helping hand

    Damo we miss you
    You will always be near
    In our thoughts
    In our hearts
    we have you right here
    life is never going to be the same

    from ellie and mates

    Report this message By ellie dundon on 7th Oct 2009
  • Damo You cared for...

    Damo You cared for me more than words can say your like my brother always in my heart in everyones heart why you thou thats what i dont get all the good people die so quik my heart broken my memories shatterd
    Whatever else we fail to do,
    We never fail to think of you.
    dude i miss you r.i.p u n bruce = batman and robbin one another always u two taking care of me and everyone els we miss you dude xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx shame it had to be you man i wud kill to get u bak in my life i love you everyone does never will forget u :'( The meaning of Damien Sweet and harmless love you damo from all the family Mostly James

    RIP M8t you maybe dead but your not dead in our hearts XXDAMOXX
    R.I.P damo...
    u will never be forgotten darl everyones gunna
    miss u hun nd i kno everyones thinking bowt u.
    Hope all the angels up ther lookin after u dude
    sleep tight xxxxx

    Report this message By anton jamieson on 5th Oct 2009
  • Every trime i look...

    Every trime i look up in the sky i always see your brightest star i always think of youu, i always think about the good times that we have had likee when we was at steves and like your mam said there were 4 in a bed and the little 1 sed role over :P jarred.rikki,mee n youu i will always remember that night and i will always remember youu no matter what , love youu forever and ever damo you was a 1 in a million grange wont be the same without youu and your gorjusss smilee love youu soo much llovee YOUU Ravenn xxxx

    Report this message By raven wivell on 5th Oct 2009
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